Love is a Black Swan

Apologies in advance to lovers of the amazing Aronofsky film, this post is about the other Black Swan, as defined by Nassim Nicholas Taleb in his book The Black Swan.

Black Swan events are succinctly described in the Wikipedia article as “the event is a surprise (to the observer) and has a major impact. After the fact, the event is rationalized by hindsight.”

What does this have to do with love? It’s simple really…  Continue reading

The Memorial Tattoo

On Thursday, my friend Jamie asked me if I was still planning to get a tattoo. The deadline I had set over a year ago was this Tuesday, May 31st, what would have been my Mom’s 49th birthday. How Jamie remembered is beyond me. I told her, “Yes… but not right now.” I do not want to seem like gets-a-tattoo-because-her-relationship-ended girl.

Especially with sky diving only a week away. Continue reading